one woman's journey to self love and living an awakened life.
It holds us to our painful past and prevents us from seeing who we really are and becoming all that we can be.
The big blocker of happiness, keeping us trapped in a painful, hateful and hurtful world is…
and it is completely superfluous.
We trick ourselves into thinking GUILT serves a purpose. In that feeling guilty helps us to learn from past mistakes, and prevents us from becoming an outrageous person with no regard or compassion for others.
When you question the validity of guilt, does it really do these things?
Or does it just make us feel bad. Feel lesser than, not equal to, wrong, terrible, evil.
And when we feel lesser than and crap what do we do from that place?
Do we spring out of bed, buy flowers for our neighbour, connect with our friends, speak up for ourselves at work, dream up a new goal to aim for?
No, we contract and hide away from the world.
Slinking like a shunned creature hiding in a back alley.
It’s purposeless and pointless. And makes us feel bad. We learn our lessons anyway, we don’t need to rub our noses in it.
So if not guilt, then what?
Toward yourself and others.
If you realise that you said or did something (or even just thought something) that may’ve hurt yourself or another, acknowledge it to yourself (and potentially the other person involved) then let it go.
A helpful method of letting it go is to do some self enquiry with compassion (and that’s the important C-word). Ponder for a moment why you might have done/said/thought what you did, and then go even deeper.
What was going on for you at that time, deep within?
Maybe you were wanting attention, or feeling unloved, or deep down you were really calling out a desperate cry for love.
Then tell yourself that you’re okay. Because you are. We all are. And we all do/say/think mean, stupid things….It doesn’t mean that you’re evil, horrible, or stupid.
It’s part of being human.
We all have those same thoughts, we all say things and even think things that we don’t really mean. And you know what? They don’t actually mean anything. They’re not true. They’re not who you really are.
Kindly let it go and move on. Trust that you’ve learnt all you’ve needed and connect back into your heart.
Recognise you are a divine being of love even though sometimes you might feel like you’re hiding your inner evil bitch. Just because you (and everyone else in the world, including me) have certain thoughts or feelings, or say things that are mean, doesn’t actually mean that’s who you are.
'Beauty is truth, truth beauty,'—that is all ye know on earth, and all ye need to know.
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