How To Never Be Lonely Again

Love everyone, open heart, how to, oneness, union, inspiringI am working with something at the moment that is drastically changing my life – and I know I’m still just scratching the surface.

I have been radically updating the way I view friends – well the way I view the idea of friends. I have come to see that a big reason so many people feel lonely is because we are constantly blocking the feeling of closeness to other people. And often, we do this because we are merely adhering to the preconceived ideas we hold about relationships, as well as falling into line with what we perceive are the societal norms.

We place a definition onto so many people and the relationships in our lives, and most of the time we aren’t even consciously aware we are doing it. The people at work we often consider work colleagues, people we’ve only just met are acquaintancesΒ or even still strangers, some people are friends, some people are good friends, and we may even have some best friends, sisters, brothers, family, partners, lovers, ex-partners/lovers and the list goes on and on. And by placing these definitions on people and our relationships with them we begin to limit them.

But what if we dropped all of that – all of the definitions and ideas? What if each person we encountered in any and all areas of our lives were immediately considered a good friend or a great friend – or even a BEST FRIEND – what do you think your life would be like then?

Imagine some of the people you cross paths with in a day, potentially a shop assistant, someone at the bus stop, your manager at work, someone you meet up with for lunch, then the person/people you come home to, or choose to meet up with or call on the weekend. Close your eyes for a moment and just imagine that each one of these people, and even the people you have no direct contact with, all instantly became dear friends of yours, whom cared for you, only wanted what was best for you, and deep down loved you. Each person was someone that you were excited to see, genuinely interested in what they had to say, that you cared for dearly, and that deep down you loved.

I know personally, when I think like this the whole world opens up! I smile for no reason (or for many reasons:), I easily express myself, I’m courageous, friendly and kind, and I try new things because I no longer require the comfort of ‘going along with a friend’ because everyone is my friend – whether they know it or not! It is easy to go anywhere and do anything, and you have connections literally all over the place – anywhere you go! Your experience of the world and of humanity opens up and expands in limitless proportions, and you feel at home.

Try for today to view everyone you encounter as a dear friend; a person with whom you can easily open up to, someone you can share a warm smile with, someone who knows you. How do you feel when you think in this way?


7 thoughts on “How To Never Be Lonely Again

  1. Hihihi, I have been like this my whole life, I talk to people in shops, at bus stops, become friends with the waitress serving my coffee, adopting family members here and there. I once travelled aorund Europe without a plan, getting invited to stay with strangers who became my adopted family members, I stop people in shops asking them to be my friend, I have been like this since I was a tiny girl. My family felt it was quite embarassing, but I had fun! πŸ™‚ I once asked a business man in full suit sitting next to me on the train if he wanted to share my chocolate, he was so taken aback in a pleasant way, we ended up chatting on the whole train ride πŸ™‚ When you live like this, you meet so many wonderful people and have magical moments! πŸ™‚ and yes, the world literally becomes your family. But you will be accused by many of being werid, that comes with it πŸ™‚ But being weird is not so bad, it mostly just means being different, and I like different πŸ™‚


    1. Awww I can feel your beautiful energy just oozing out through your words! I was smiling and laughing all the way through reading your comment!!! I would love to bump into you on a train or in a shop! I bet people leave and then talk about their interaction ‘with the lovely girl from the train’ to the people they see later on in the day!

      I love that you shared your chocolate!!!! How incredible sweet!! What a treasure you are for the world, a real earth angel πŸ™‚

      Thanks so much for sharing on this site, it really is wonderful! Have a super special day! With love, Sharon

      ps…. I like different too!


      1. πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ have s super-duper-day you too!!! πŸ™‚ One day we might bump in to each other, and then we will smile, and I will say: “do You want a picee of chocolate”, and then you will know it is me!! πŸ™‚ Hihi! πŸ™‚ You are a beautful treasure too with a beautiful blog that I love! πŸ™‚ Lots of magic to you! ❀


  2. Thank you so much enjoyed reading your blog!! I constantly feel like everyone is my friend and smiling is definitely my way of connecting with the world. I feel joy and giggle sometimes inappropriately because of the feeling of connection I receive from others. Weird is a word which has been use alot around me and to me that is a compliment as weird in the dictionary say supernatural. Would be an amazing world if we all were weird/ supernatural!!
    Love n heart hugs


    1. I’m going to have to agree with you 1000%! Your smile is like a window from your soul that shines out and greets us all! Wow I love that weird means supernatural!

      Your joy and laughter is infectious and a gift to all!

      With love from one supernatural being to another πŸ˜‰ Sharon


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